It is as it needs to be for now. I completely trust that divine energy always leads us toward our next step…sometimes it is a message teaching us a new lesson (which is usually quite painful or uncomfortable), sometimes we are in sync and it is fluid and easy; all divine energy leads us toward growth and loving purpose…for the highest good of all. I also trust that when something doesn’t feel right, the individual spirit is communicating divine direction.
When an individual is suffering (however great or small, real or imagined) that they cannot “SEE” clearly. Their thoughts, words and actions are clouded. They are afraid, they think they are right, they are attached to something (an outcome, a building, a person, thing or idea), and they vehemently reject anything that they perceive as threatening or potentially uncomfortable. I also know that their suffering is not about me – its about them.
When anyone is suffering or in discomfort, these are always good questions to ask ourselves:
What is my greatest struggle in life right now and why is this so difficult?
What am I afraid of and why? Where does this fear come from?
What am I attached to and why?
Do I need to be right?
Do I need to comfort and take care of someone or something? Why?
And, what am I rejecting and why?
What do I need to do to honor my gut…my intuition…my spiritual self?
These answers always lead us to the “Real Truth” of a situation. And then with a gentle heart we express that truth to the person or persons…the emotional truth of how we feel in a given moment in time. We state what we need and want; we establish and uphold boundaries that honor our feelings, intuition and things we know to be true. We simply listen to the answers we receive and take right action. And, then we detach and let the universe deal with the details. Once we have taken action, the universe will let us know pretty quickly whether we are moving in the right direction because we will feel it.